The Subtle Differences Between Bridal And Wedding Showers
Many people are unclear as to the differences between a bridal shower and a wedding shower. While this can be a bit confusing what with all of the functions and rehearsals going on during an engagement, the differences are subtle but clear. The biggest difference between these two particular functions is for whom the shower or party is thrown. A bridal shower is for the bride only and it is for the giving of personal gifts for the bride. A wedding shower is for the couple, both bride and groom and it is traditional to give household gifts or gifts that both bride and groom can enjoy as a couple. There is also a difference between bridal shower favors and wedding shower favors. Most websites and stores will have these two distinct favors in separate categories to minimize the confusion for you.
A bridal shower should be thrown for the bride by a bridesmaid, bridesmaids, or the maid of honor. Even friends who are not in the wedding party can throw a bridal shower. The bride’s family should not throw the shower for the bride unless there is no one else to do it. If the bride does not have anyone who will or can organize a bridal shower, it is acceptable for the family to step into the role but usually only under those circumstances.
The wedding shower can be thrown by the bride’s family or a coupling of the bride and grooms family or anyone else in the wedding party. It is customary when inviting guests to the wedding shower to include the couple’s registry information with the invitations. The gifts should be from the registry if possible but they do not have to be. The main point of the gift is that it is for both the bride and groom. Both of these affairs can be either formal or informal and are usually the latter of these two options. The wedding shower may have men in attendance such as the groom, his father, the best man, and the groomsmen.
The bridal shower is not supposed to be a large affair. There should be no more than twenty guests with the average being around ten. This is a personal and intimate party design specifically with the bride and her closest and dearest friends. While it is all right to invite less personal acquaintances, do so only with the bride’s specific consent. Remember that the bride may want to honor all of her guests with bridal shower favors so she will need to know exactly who is coming to the shower. Do not include any surprise guests or bring along dates to avoid embarrassing situations for both the bride and the guest.
The bridal shower should not be held within a month of the wedding One month is fine but any closer then that would put undo pressure on an already busy and possibly over burdened bride to be. The last few weeks before the wedding can be very harrowing for the new bride. This is especially true if she does not have anyone experienced in her corner to guide her through the process. This is a question that should come up at the bridal shower with offers of assistance from her guests who, again, should only be very close friends.
The wedding shower can be held anytime during the process but should also not be within the last few weeks. Keep in mind that the bridal shower is not just an occasion to get together and give gifts. It is a show of support for the bride by her dearest friends. This occasion is the perfect time to assess the bride’s progress and offer your help.
The Secret To Being A Beautiful Bride
The bride is supposed to be perfect on her wedding day. Sometimes this can be quite challenging what with all the stress and long days and nights leading up to the big day. If you want to look great on the day of your wedding, follow these five fail-safe tips and you cannot go wrong.
What Are You Staring At? The first thing a bride must do to look great is to make sure she handles all aspects of her big day, including what the bridesmaids will wear and how they will appear when standing next to her. What is the point of looking your best when the bridesmaids all look even greater? How can you overcome five natural beauties that look elegant and sexy standing next to you in your white gown hidden behind a veil? It is simple. Choose you bridesmaids from amongst the ugliest and plumpest friends you have. Make sure you pick out the dresses and put them into something either purple or bright yellow. (Or both!) This way, it will look like you are standing next to five big canaries or five plump grapes that are half way to raison.
Super Size Me (Can I Have Fries with That?) Everyone knows that the quickest way to a super-sized zit right in the middle of your forehead and/or the very tip of your nose is stress and a trip to a fast food burger joint. Two days before the wedding, take your bridesmaids out to lunch at one of these burger joints and insist that you hold an eating contest. If you have picked out bridesmaids according to the paragraph above, you should have no trouble getting them to eat as much free food as possible. (Remember not to eat any of this yourself) A super-sized portion of greasy French fries with double the bacon, double the processed beef patty, and extra imitation processed cheese (made from oil) will do wonders for your bridesmaid’s complexion and make you look fantastic with all that clear skin.
An Affair to Disremember Make sure that your wedding guests all receive wedding gifts such as photo album favors and wedding cameras fully loaded and with extra rolls in the gift bag. Include a note saying that you want as many pictures of you with your BFF bridesmaids as possible. (You do love them so) Hang out with your raisonette wedding party as much and as often as possible whenever there are cameras pointing your way.
The Bag Lady Sings the Blues The night before your wedding, after sleeping for eight hours during the afternoon, invite all your chubby chums to a bachelorette party. You spring for the drinks but it is important that you pull your waitress off to the side and slip her a fifty dollar bill with instructions to bring your table a round of shots every five minutes until someone passes out and then bring them every three minutes. Tell her to make yours water. On your wedding day, there will be so many bags under their bloodshot eyes that you could transport the leftovers from the buffet table in them.
The End Is Near Do you want to look as graceful as a gazelle? When no one is around, slip into the dressing room and replace those bridesmaids’ six-inch high heel shoes you picked out with a size too small for them and replace the anti-acne clinique with petroleum jelly. At the alter, while they stumble around next to you with their make-up slowly oozing down their chubby little faces, you will be, without any doubt, the most beautiful bride anyone can ever remember.
Tips To Make That Extra Special Wedding Memory
You are planning a wedding and you need some ideas that will make it special and unique but you do not know where to look. Well, if you are looking for ways to make your wedding unique, it will not be unique. In order for you to do something special you only have to look at your heart and what it tells you. Find your inspiration from within and if that does not work, try these ideas on for size and maybe you will be inspired. It is the little things that will make your wedding experience different because it is the little things that people notice the most. A good for instance would be to add little tags everywhere your guest will look that have poems or declarations of love. Even love song titles will stick in your guest’s minds and remind them of how special this occasion really is.
Another quaint but original idea is to write your own wedding song. If you have no writing skills do not worry, every family has someone who can write and if not, an add in your local newspaper is sure to bring plenty of hits. If you have hired live entertainment for your wedding, there is a good chance that they will help you write the music to your lyrics and may even coach you and the groom on how to sing the melody. Then, when the music is moving everyone to the dance floor, you and your new partner can get on stage, announce that you have written a very special song, and want to share it. If this is done right, there will not be a dry eye in the house and everyone will know how much you really love each other.
There are many ways to make your wedding day special for yourself and your spouse, the challenge will be to make it a completely new and unique experience for your guests. This is where your wedding favors can come into play. There are hundreds of wedding accessory internet stores but only a handful of truly unique wedding favor specific sites that will have something that totally turns you on. Find these sites and you will be in business. These few sites will be dedicated solely to wedding favors and will have beautiful gifts that you can get at affordable prices. With that in mind, think of what theme your wedding is in because that is the kind of unique wedding favor you want to go with. If the guests remember the theme, they will remember more detail about the wedding and reception.
A gift of candle wedding favors and elegant wedding favors like crystal, porcelain, and glass are among some of the most popular and yet still unique favors that you will find and they come in so many brilliant and startling colors and designs that these favors are sure to be a success. Wedding favors are not the only thing that can be presented in a new and memory jogging way. You have plenty of options when it comes to food and drink. You might think about serving exotic dishes to go along with that exotic theme. If you are having your wedding or the reception on a beach, everyone will be expecting seafood, which is one of the best foods with which to be creative.
Imagine your guests surprise when you serve those Alligator or shark. Instead of filling their plate with cod and hiding the long john silver boxes in the dumpster down the beach, hire a Cajun cook who really knows his way around a crawdad or frog leg.
Regardless of the menu or the guests gifts, you can come up with many ways to make your wedding a one of a kind event if you just look in your heart and let your love and inspiration flow.